Actions speak louder than words.

Is it worth it for him to try? Why would he ask me that? That is something he needs to figure out for himself. I can't make him try. I can't give him any reason other than if he tried, maybe we could make it work.

But he showed me today that he is not going to try. Actions really do speak louder than words. I won't try to fool myself and say, hey, I'll give him another chance. No way. He ran out of chances a long time ago. I just didn't realize it until just now. There's nothing I can do to make this better. This is one hundred percent his fault. I don't like laying blame but there is no where else to lay it this time.